The power of Ignoring your Haters on Facebook

If you have 1,000+ friends in Facebook or if you are active in your community, chances are that there would be haters. 

Even a plain person who just made it a habit to post everything about their personal life is sure to gain a hater at some point in their life.
It is but human nature,  there are no direct or clever reasons to explain why some people hate you while some tend to put a like on every post that you place.

The Power Behind Ignoring something you hate on Social Networks:

It doesn't matter how you choose to live your life — whether you build a business or work a corporate job; have children or choose not to have children; travel the world or live in the same town all of your life; go to the gym 5 times a week or sit on the couch every night — whatever you do, someone will judge you for it- James Clear

1.  People are judgmental- Get over it-  There is no clear explanation as to why some people are understanding and while some are judgmental. Judging others is an inherent quality to many, it is something natural and can be done even by the most saintly character in the world. The easier you accept this reality, the better life would be. 

Learn not to take things personally, most of the time this kind of hatred or judgment will usually fade once no energy is put into it.
If you continue  ignoring the haters on your social networking site and you start focusing or talking about people who actually love what you say and what you do, chances are you would have a better outlook in life.
There are 1,000 individuals who will provide approval and appreciation, but there is always a big chance that 1 or 10 individuals will contradict what you have done. People judge, you also judge others whether you have a moral or good basis.

We just have to learn to let it go, tomorrow is another day and comments such as these don't really stay long in the minds of others. There is too much information going on in the world right now, people hardly remember what happened yesterday.




2. The possibility of jealousy-   there are times when people who deal with what they see on what we post are just jealous, or they harbor resentment that is connected with what yo have posted. Others will choose to be kind, while others will choose to be envious of whatever it is that you post. If there is someone who is constantly targeting you for no reason at all, or who is set on contradicting whatever you say or post on Facebook...he or she might just be jealous of your life.

3. Stop contributing Negative Energy into this world-  we do not need to focus on the negative things that are happening around us. Media and television reports are already doing that for us from day to day. 

We can ignore people no matter how nasty the comment is,  the erase and block option has been put there for a reason. Your Facebook status and page is yours to control, it is not a democracy and because it is not you can actually control the kind of information people will be reading in it.

 It is pure logic. If you don't like the reaction of someone, you can choose to delete it, the more you respond to it the higher the number of people who are going to probably add something you don't like. Control the situation because you can.

4. Average individuals don't have haters...only great people do- Remember that a lot of people are just spectators to the kind of world you have projected on Facebook.  Some of them are just viewing the action, what is happening and have absolutely no participation of their own which makes it easier for them to judge. 

If they are only spectators and have no knowledge of what is happening...then they will not necessarily have any experience regarding the issue...which means they are not experienced enough to understand whatever explanation you have for them. The best solution is to ignore someone especially if they are not doers...just spectators.

 A lot of individuals will just you as you chase a dream, this could be family friends,  critics and even strangers who just love to involve themselves on something they don't understand.

At the end of the day the power of ignoring people that hate you says so much more than the retaliation you will provide. Time is ticking, you honestly cannot spend even a minute from trying to explain who you are...because nothing will truly  come out of it.

Just like the saying in the brand logo of Nike...Just do it. 

Less attention to hate and more attention to the love you are receiving no matter how small is what will change your life.